R.j Lake

2008 - 2008
LocationWythenshawe,manchester
Age0
Cause of DeathStill Birth
Date of Birth24/10/2008
Date of Death24/10/2008
Visitors3,186 since 14/11/2008
Creator

R.J...MY PERFECT SON
BORN ASLEEP ON THE 24TH OCTOBER 2008
WEIGHING 3LB 14OZ




I was 28 weeks pregnant when my unborn son was diagnosed with Patau's Syndrome plus there was a problem with the cord it wasn't giving R.J the oxygen he needed,The doctors wanted to give me a tablet to stop my son's heartbeat and i told him NO!!!.I was told my son wouldn't survive the next few days but i carried on with my pregnacy.At 36 weeks my son wasn't moving,i went to the hospital and had a scan they said my son's heartbeat was still strong but the cord had gone worse and there was no hope for my son a few days later our fears were confirmed my son had gone to play with the angels.But how can i live knowing i should be here now feeding and changing my sons nappy and waking up at night to give him his feed,Its so hard coming home from the hospital empty handed knowing that you have just give to birth to a wonderful baby boy that you have carried and felt kicking inside you.R,J was cremated on the 4th november 2008.Always in my heart and thoughts no matter where i am or what i do....go and play in gods heavenly nursery son and i will see you soon xxxx


The poem that your Auntie Samantha read at your funeral son.



"IT'S HARD TO SAY GOOD-BYE
BEFORE WE'VE SAID HELLO"

He was so precious,and very special
and was so from the start,
We held him in our arms
but mainly in our heart

God sent an angel to the earth
the sweetest angel too,
For such a tiny thing
He had so much to do.

He's gone to play with the angels
In heaven up above,
So keep our tiny memories
And treasure them with love.

Although our darling R.J
Was with us for just a while,
He'll live on in our hearts
We'll remember him with a smile.

SLEEP IN PEACE LITTLE R.J X





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god bless u little man hope your having lots of fun with all the other angels still so sadly missed xxx

Bernadette Barnes (Family Friend)

4 weeks ago

daddys little man

happy 3rd birthday daddys little man i love u so much
and miss u ever day i think off u every min off ever day hope nanny is looking after u

Andrew Lake (Daddy)

October 23, 2011

happy 2nd birthday son!!!!

happy birthday son mummy misses you so much ..wish u were here with me!!! x x x x

Melina Price (Mummy)

October 24, 2010

daddys little man

happy birthday little men
Today is your 2nd birthday and i still love today as much as i did the day u were born and the first time i held u in my arms u mean so much to me
i think about u all the time so sleep will
LITTLE MAN DADDY LOVES YA
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LITTLE MAN
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Andrew Lake (Daddy)

October 24, 2010

daddy's little man

hi son hope your ok i miss u so much and i was thinking about u so much yestoday .. as we was lying your great grandad to rest yestoday ... i think off u all the time every min off every day i love u so much with all my heart and i all ways will to the day me meet again

how's nana hope she looking after u and giving u every think u want lol

right son am going bed now its been a long day
love u so much little man xxxxxxx

Andrew Lake (Daddy)

June 20, 2010

hope ur having fun up there rj and always look over ur mummy and daddy who love u lots

Vicky Roberts

June 17, 2010

Precious Child by Karen Taylor Good

In my dreams, you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind, I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart, there is hope
'Cause you are with me still

In my heart, you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart

In my plans, I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world, I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child

In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope
And you are with me still

In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon,
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart

God knows I want to hold you,
See you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven
And someday I will again
Please know you are not forgotten until then

In my heart you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart

Caroline Ramshaw

May 14, 2010

ME AND MY SON

We are connected,
My child and I, by
An invisible cord
Not seen by the eye.

It's not like the cord
That connects us 'til birth
This cord can't been seen
By any on Earth.

This cord does it's work
Right from the start.
It binds us together
Attached to my heart.

I know that it's there
Though no one can see
The invisible cord
From my child to me.

The strength of this cord
Is hard to describe.
It can't be destroyed
It can't be denied.

It's stronger than any cord
Man could create
It withstands the test
Can hold any weight.

And though you are gone,
Though you're not here with me,
The cord is still there
But no one can see.

It pulls at my heart
I am bruised...I am sore,
But this cord is my lifeline
As never before.

I am thankful that God
Connects us this way
A mother and child
Death can't take it away!

Melina Price (Mummy)

April 19, 2010

MY SON R.J

~ With Love ~
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Goodnight..
Sweet dreams precious Angel above
I shall leave you this tribute..
And I've left it with love

The moon is aglow..
The stars shine so bright
I wish you sweet dreams..
That last through the night

Melina Price (Mummy)

April 3, 2010

MY BEAUTIFUL SON R.J

Hi son hope your ok up there looking down on us all we all miss you and love you loads,cant believe your 2 this year wish you would be here for us all to celebrate.i think about you and miss you everyday
love you son
all my hugs and kisses
love mummy

xxxxxxxxxx

Melina Price (Mummy)

April 2, 2010
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