| Location | Wythenshawe,manchester |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 24/10/2008 |
| Date of Death | 24/10/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,997 since 14/11/2008 |
| Creator |
R.J...MY PERFECT SON
BORN ASLEEP ON THE 24TH OCTOBER 2008
WEIGHING 3LB 14OZ
I was 28 weeks pregnant when my unborn son was diagnosed with Patau's Syndrome plus there was a
problem with the cord it wasn't giving R.J the oxygen he needed,The doctors wanted to give me a
tablet to stop my son's heartbeat and i told him NO!!!.I was told my son wouldn't survive the next
few days but i carried on with my pregnacy.At 36 weeks my son wasn't moving,i went to the hospital
and had a scan they said my son's heartbeat was still strong but the cord had gone worse and there
was no hope for my son a few days later our fears were confirmed my son had gone to play with the
angels.But how can i live knowing i should be here now feeding and changing my sons nappy and waking
up at night to give him his feed,Its so hard coming home from the hospital empty handed knowing that
you have just give to birth to a wonderful baby boy that you have carried and felt kicking inside
you.R,J was cremated on the 4th november 2008.Always in my heart and thoughts no matter where i am
or what i do....go and play in gods heavenly nursery son and i will see you soon xxxx
The poem that your Auntie Samantha read at your funeral son.
"IT'S HARD TO SAY GOOD-BYE
BEFORE WE'VE SAID HELLO"
He was so precious,and very special
and was so from the start,
We held him in our arms
but mainly in our heart
God sent an angel to the earth
the sweetest angel too,
For such a tiny thing
He had so much to do.
He's gone to play with the angels
In heaven up above,
So keep our tiny memories
And treasure them with love.
Although our darling R.J
Was with us for just a while,
He'll live on in our hearts
We'll remember him with a smile.
SLEEP IN PEACE LITTLE R.J X
merry christmas son
happy christmas son
this christmas is going to be a quiet one just wish you were here to liven it up for us we will be thinking of you all day son mummy loves and misses you millions godbless mummys little one x x x x x
Words, however kind,
can't mend your heartache: ,
but those who care and ,
share your loss wish you,
comfort and peace of mind.,
May you find strength,
in the love of family,
and in the warm embrace,
of friends.,
Deepest Sympathy
i send my love to mel and andy were here for you both.
rest in peace lil man you will be sadly missed by everyone xxxxxxxxx
hello son
Hi son how are you mummy been very busy with xmas its your big brothers birthday tomorrow he will be 12 just wish you were here to celebrate his birthday and christmas with all of us daddy bought you a christmas snowman for you today its sat on your unit with you in your manchester city urn he hopes you like it hope your being good for grandad john send him our love speak soon son love mummy x x x x x x x
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_______________Merry Christmas
______________And Also, A Happy
_____________New Year To You For
____________2009... I Hope The New
___________Year Brings You Loads Of
__________Happiness And Lots Of Fun.
_________I Hope You Have A Nice Day On
________Christmas Day, Filled With Lots Of
_______Angel Time.......And Of Course Eating
______Lots Of Nice Foods, And Candies. I Hope
_____That Santa Is Good To You As Well And He
___Brings You Loads Of Presents On Christmas Day
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I LOVE U SO MUCH DADDYS LITTLE MAN
Hi son i now i not been on for a few days but i syill think about u very min of every day and i all ways will son u mean so much to me .
i have a big hole in my life and thats were u are meant to be
it my bday on monday son its not going to be the some because u should be here with me giving me huggs and kiss on that day and xmas is round the corner i wish i could just go sleep and wake up when its all over or neaver wake at all then we would be together for ever
it kills me every day i after wake up and your not here cry whating a bottle or your nappy changing i would of been i top dad to u son i would of give u ever think u whated every think i never had when i was a kid .
i love u so much son mummy loves u to son very much am going now son i will chat to u latter ok so bye for now love u loads your daddy
A Christmas Present
It's Christmas and I'll miss you
You'll never know how much
The greatest thing I could get
Would be just to feel your touch.
I know you're safe in God's arms
And you're as happy as can be
And I know that I'm being selfish
To want you here with me.
Have a lovely Christmas
I'll get by, you'll see
Just Promise me on Christmas day
That you will think of me.
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_____*o* CHRISTMAS *o*_______
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___*o*o*o* HAPPY *o*o*o*o*_____
__*o*o*o*o* NEW *o*o*o*o*o*___
_*o*o*o* YEAR 2009 *o*o*o*o*___
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my beautiful son
hi son
mummy's still here and always will be just wish i had you here in my arms to hold im always thinking of you always kissing your picture before i go to sleep at night just wish i could kiss your soft cheeks instead of your picture but your picture is all i have so i will cherish it till the day im reunited with you again i hope grandad is looking after you son i wished it was mummy looking after you though son sometimes i think if it was'nt for your brother and sisters i wouldnt be here i would rather be there for you but i know in my heart your at peace and they need me.i just wish there was a way you could let me know that your ok,safe and well.mummy loves you so much son i just wish that things couldv'e been different but god took you cause you are one special little man and im so proud to say that your my little man.
love you always and forever x x x x x
HI DADDYS LITTLE MAN
Hi son am still thinking for u every day and so is mummy we both love u very much and always will .
chrismas is just round the corner but i wish i could sleep thought it as its not going to be the same with out u as this would be your fristed chrismas SON.
but people say life must go on but with out u in my life how can my life gone on son its my bday soon and i should begetting my frist card of u but am not and that really upsets .
am going now SON got to clean up with mummy before she starts shouting at me lol .
its not good bye its it will speak again latter SON
i love u SON saw much xxxxxxx
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