| Location | Wythenshawe,manchester |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 24/10/2008 |
| Date of Death | 24/10/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,998 since 14/11/2008 |
| Creator |
R.J...MY PERFECT SON
BORN ASLEEP ON THE 24TH OCTOBER 2008
WEIGHING 3LB 14OZ
I was 28 weeks pregnant when my unborn son was diagnosed with Patau's Syndrome plus there was a
problem with the cord it wasn't giving R.J the oxygen he needed,The doctors wanted to give me a
tablet to stop my son's heartbeat and i told him NO!!!.I was told my son wouldn't survive the next
few days but i carried on with my pregnacy.At 36 weeks my son wasn't moving,i went to the hospital
and had a scan they said my son's heartbeat was still strong but the cord had gone worse and there
was no hope for my son a few days later our fears were confirmed my son had gone to play with the
angels.But how can i live knowing i should be here now feeding and changing my sons nappy and waking
up at night to give him his feed,Its so hard coming home from the hospital empty handed knowing that
you have just give to birth to a wonderful baby boy that you have carried and felt kicking inside
you.R,J was cremated on the 4th november 2008.Always in my heart and thoughts no matter where i am
or what i do....go and play in gods heavenly nursery son and i will see you soon xxxx
The poem that your Auntie Samantha read at your funeral son.
"IT'S HARD TO SAY GOOD-BYE
BEFORE WE'VE SAID HELLO"
He was so precious,and very special
and was so from the start,
We held him in our arms
but mainly in our heart
God sent an angel to the earth
the sweetest angel too,
For such a tiny thing
He had so much to do.
He's gone to play with the angels
In heaven up above,
So keep our tiny memories
And treasure them with love.
Although our darling R.J
Was with us for just a while,
He'll live on in our hearts
We'll remember him with a smile.
SLEEP IN PEACE LITTLE R.J X
Hi baby
Just tought i'd drop by to read ur new tributes.
Did u make me and mummy think about signing in at the same time cos we did lol.
Next time me and mummy go to the spiritulist church get ur grandad John to bring u and let us know that u are ok up there and out of pain and having fun.
Love u
Auntie Sam
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Hi RJ
Just been reading all the tributes. You are one loved little boy.
I know mummy, daddy, auntie Sam and all the family are missing you. Loosing you has been the hardest thing they have all had to go through.
PLease look after everyone and keep playing with the TV for mummy so she knows you are there! Cause a little mischief!
Sleep tight beautiful angel.
Jodene
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hi son just got in from work going to have some think so eat then going bed
i take u of a walk to day i wish it was in your pram but now it was in your mums hand bag bless u lol
i hope u injoyed it lol i love u so much and i miss u so much it is killing me every day we apart ..
love ya son mwhaaaaaaaaaaaaa xxxxxx
Hi son ive been busy today cleaning the house your big brother and sisters and daddy are making a mess and only i clean it,i think i should give them all a telling off what do you think? And if you are playing with my television don't stop son mummy likes it as i know your watching over us.Love you so much son speak to you tomorrow lots of love hugs and kisses mummy xxxxx
hi son just got home from work and am sat here crying reading all your messages from sam and chev mummy and every one all i what to say to u son before i got bed and dream of u in my arms is son i would for been a good daddy to u i now i have not been there for your to sisters like i should of and am sorry for that but son i would of been there for u ever min and hour for ever day .
i miss u every day u are the only thing i think of all day every day i wish i could swope place with u so your mummy could be happy i would in a flash .right son am going to say good night and sweet dreams all my love kiss hugs your daddy
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ps love u with all my heart and soul xxxxxx
A THOUSAND TIMES WE'VE NEEDED YOU
A THOUSAND TIMES WE'VE CRIED
IF LOVE ALONE COULD HAVE SAVED YOU
YOU WOULD NEVER OF DIED
A HEART OF GOLD STOPPED BEATING
TWO TWINKLING EYES CLOSED TO REST
GOD BROKE OUR HEARTS TO PROVE HE ONLY TAKES THE BEST
NEVER A DAY GOES BY THAT YOUR NOT IN MY HEART AND SOUL.
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for R.J the shining star in my life
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Hiya cus,
I never got to meet you as you were taking from the family before I had chance.
I remember the day, it was the first time since auntie Mel (your mum) had been pregnant when i patted her tummy when she was fearing the worst as if to say "come on mate, i need some one to play footie with and to come to the city matches when we were bigger!!"
Unfortunatly your not here in body to do that with me. I know you will be with me in spirit and help me score them goals!!!! lol.
Have fun playing with the angels
Lots of love
Your cousin
Jayden
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ANGEL FOOTPRINTS
These are my footprints,
So perfect and so small.
These tiny footprints,
Never touched the ground at all.
Not one tiny footprint,
For now I have my wings.
These tiny footprints were meant,
For other things.
You will hear my tiny footprints,
In the patter of the rain.
Gentle drops like angel's tears,
Of joy and not from pain.
You will see my tiny footprints,
In each butterflies' lazy dance.
I'll let you know I'm with you,
If you just give me a chance.
You will see my tiny footprints,
In the rustle of the leaves.
I will whisper names into the wind,
And call each one that grieves.
Most of all, these tiny footprints,
Are found on mommy's heart.
'Cause even though I'm gone now,
We'll NEVER truly part.
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