| Location | Wythenshawe,manchester |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 24/10/2008 |
| Date of Death | 24/10/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,998 since 14/11/2008 |
| Creator |
R.J...MY PERFECT SON
BORN ASLEEP ON THE 24TH OCTOBER 2008
WEIGHING 3LB 14OZ
I was 28 weeks pregnant when my unborn son was diagnosed with Patau's Syndrome plus there was a
problem with the cord it wasn't giving R.J the oxygen he needed,The doctors wanted to give me a
tablet to stop my son's heartbeat and i told him NO!!!.I was told my son wouldn't survive the next
few days but i carried on with my pregnacy.At 36 weeks my son wasn't moving,i went to the hospital
and had a scan they said my son's heartbeat was still strong but the cord had gone worse and there
was no hope for my son a few days later our fears were confirmed my son had gone to play with the
angels.But how can i live knowing i should be here now feeding and changing my sons nappy and waking
up at night to give him his feed,Its so hard coming home from the hospital empty handed knowing that
you have just give to birth to a wonderful baby boy that you have carried and felt kicking inside
you.R,J was cremated on the 4th november 2008.Always in my heart and thoughts no matter where i am
or what i do....go and play in gods heavenly nursery son and i will see you soon xxxx
The poem that your Auntie Samantha read at your funeral son.
"IT'S HARD TO SAY GOOD-BYE
BEFORE WE'VE SAID HELLO"
He was so precious,and very special
and was so from the start,
We held him in our arms
but mainly in our heart
God sent an angel to the earth
the sweetest angel too,
For such a tiny thing
He had so much to do.
He's gone to play with the angels
In heaven up above,
So keep our tiny memories
And treasure them with love.
Although our darling R.J
Was with us for just a while,
He'll live on in our hearts
We'll remember him with a smile.
SLEEP IN PEACE LITTLE R.J X
R.J
R.J You Was Loved By Everyone From Day One You Still Are And Always Will! You Had Such An Amazing Familly To Meet! Your Mum And Dad Are Such Lovley People You Would'nt Of Asked For Better! I Love You So Much Cuz Will Think Of You Always !!
Chev!
RJ, Hope ur having fun up there playing with the angels and free from pain, watching over Mummy, Daddy, your brother and all your sisters.
You were so beautiful and tiny. Im so glad I got to hold you for the 10 mins I did.
You will remain in my thoughts and heart forever darling and when Jayden grows up I will tell him all about his beloved cousin that he never got to play with.
Sleep tight baby boy and play freely.
Love you millions
Lots of love
Auntie Sam
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Deeath
Death is a heartache
no one can heal
Love is a memory
no one can steal.
Love goes to you
and your family at
this most sad time.
Hugs & kisses little
angel sleep well.
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R.J LAKE
A THOUSAND WORDS WON'T BRING YOU BACK
I KNOW BECAUSE I'VE TRIED
NEITHER WILL A MILLION TEARS
I KNOW BECAUSE I'VE CRIED
THEY SAY MEMORIES ARE TO TREASURE TO SOME THAT MAY BE TRUE
I NEVER WANTED MEMORIES I ONLY WANTED YOU.
hi r.j i miss u so much i think about u every day
i love u more and more every time i think of u
lots of love your sister elisha aged 8
hi R.J are you ok up there you are the special baby boy in the werld but we will all love you. do you no that you can all ways speak to me and have you made eny frends up there?love you always from your big sister yasmin age 10.
Im so sorry to hear of your loss
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you wake in the morning hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
(Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die!
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